Sexual Truth

It is so difficult to do the right thing all the time. It is even worse when we fall, knowing full well that we are doing wrong. We of course know right and wrong. Our parents taught us and theirs before them. And also the Lord has it written in our hearts.

There are so many people in these times that want everything they do justified and accepted. Did you ever notice how strongly they push their position and if someone objects they scream even louder. Like spoiled children, they scream and shout until they get their way.

But unfortunately many of our social problems are getting bigger because we as a society are failing our children. The homosexual revolution has created a society with a complete lack of honesty and truth. Everything has become now about instant gratification and pleasure. If you don’t have these things and anyone gets in your way then they are evil.

Since when has personal gratification become the arbiter of justice? I personally believe it has been happening for years now and probably started in the 1970s. I remember growing up back then and many of the TV shows and movies were centered on “Love”. But the love they were professing was not a real love but a perverse self gratification. I believe this is a manifestation of sexual intercourse without responsibility of an outcome.

Contraception is in all actuality the beginning step of this mentality. It was not until the late 1930s that any protestant churches started to say that contraception was morally acceptable and since that time the slope has become slipperier. Since now the sexual act was no longer confined to the marital life or at the very least the creation of new life, it became a pleasure seeking vehicle.

Now that sex is about pleasure and not about self gift to the other and/or creation of new life we could no longer accept any responsibility for any outcomes from our selfish act. The next step became abortion. Abortion is the contraception if the original failed, even though it involves the killing of human life. Because we can’t ruin our pleasure seeking with caring for a new life! If the sexual act has become about self gratification then in all actuality when a couple is contracepting are they making love? I say they are not. They are performing mutual masturbation. There is no gift of self of which exists a reward of possibly a new life. Instead they are denying each other the true intimacy of which God gave us. It would be like kissing with saran wrap over our face, would you think that bizarre? Yet our society now accepts it as normal.

This of course lead to its ultimate end of which if sex is simply about sexual gratification why does it matter whether it is with a male or female? Hence the homosexual’s have every right under this belief system that what they should be allowed and accepted in any way, shape or form. This of course has lead to transsexuals, transvestites and bestiality. Recently there was an article I read where a woman married a dolphin!

So what is my point? My point is that we live in an insane world where churches that call themselves Christian are really bastions of perversity and indifference to the gift God has given us. Only the Catholic Church which loves “sex” for its God given purpose and use truly professes the proper understanding of sexuality. And only when this proper understanding of a loving, caring couple giving of themselves to each other completely, and by the way as much as we want in marriage, is understood will the institution of marriage be restored to its proper place. Unfortunately we have a long way to go, our society has a very long way to go and so do many even within the church.

When this understanding of real “Love” and sexual relations start to come about we will see a decline in the divorce rate. I believe in many divorces it is said that many wives feel they were being used and not loved. Unfortunately and unknowingly by many of their male counterparts that is exactly what was happening and the women themselves were and are willing participants as they give themselves to this use through the unloving mutual masturbation that is contraception.